As a final piece of advice for today, I would say: Choose positivity as your driving force. Acknowledge your inner strength, adaptability, independence, resourcefulness, and perseverance. Healing transforms weakness into resilience, fear into courage, and trauma into empowerment. You’re not defined by your past; you’re shaped by your ability to rise above it. Let the positive lead your journey toward self-discovery and healing!

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Labels… They cling to us like invisible tattoos, shaping our perception of self and coloring our experiences. Whether bestowed upon us by others or self-imposed, these labels become the lenses through which we view the world. In this exploration of self-identity, I invite you to journey with me through the labyrinth of labels—the ones we wear proudly and the ones that weigh us down.

Self-reliance is about having a set of tools at your disposal that you can use to manage your emotional state. It’s about being equipped to handle whatever life throws at you, without feeling dependent on external solutions. This doesn’t mean rejecting medical advice or assistance; rather, it’s about complementing it with personal strategies that enhance your ability to cope.

My toolbox is built on three foundational pillars. Let’s explore each of these and how they can empower you to manage your emotional state effectively.

In conclusion, filling your own tank is not just about self-indulgence; it’s about self-preservation and growth. When we learn to appreciate and love ourselves, we create a wellspring of positivity that overflows into every aspect of our lives. Check these tips and start today. Celebrate yourself, reflect on your presence, and watch as the world around you transforms, one self-loving act at a time.

In the hustle and bustle of modern life, it’s all too easy to take on more than we can handle. The desire to prove ourselves and manage the perceptions of others can lead us down a path of overcommitment, leaving us feeling unfocused, erratic, and utterly overwhelmed. This is a tale many of us know all too well, and it’s the focus of a particularly insightful podcast episode I recorded years ago.

Here are some of the key takeaways to help anyone struggling with similar issues:

Letting Go of Unnecessary Burdens

1. Identify What’s Not Yours

2. Practice Saying ‘No’

3. Delegate

Prioritizing Self-Care and Worthiness

1. Self-Care Rituals

2. Affirmations

3. Align Actions with Values

Building and Relying on Your Support System

1. Seek Support

2. Share Your Struggles

3. Set Boundaries

Let’s begin understanding the differences between these terms:

Expectations are often externally imposed beliefs or assumptions about how we should act, look, or behave in certain situations. They can create pressure, stress, and feelings of inadequacy when we fail to meet them. On the other hand, standards are internal guidelines that we set for ourselves based on our values, beliefs, and aspirations. They serve as a compass for how we want to live our lives and the kind of person we strive to be.

Poor self-awareness, insecurities and codependency are the perfect mix for a lot of damage and when we fill our time by spending time with other people (family, friends, partners, etc.) we don’t have time or space to sit alone with ourselves, realize that we have these issues and find ways to solve them. Here are some tips that helped me master the art of spending time with myself, and may also help you:

1. Acknowledge Your Feelings

2. Challenge Negative Beliefs

3. Seek Support

4. Practice Self-Care

5. Set Boundaries

6. Let Go of Guilt

7. Embrace Solitude

Remember, you are worthy of love, appreciation, and empathy, and that the people around you deserve it too. By embracing your own value and nurturing your emotional well-being, you can break free from the cycle of seeking validation from others and find true fulfillment within yourself. Embrace your journey of self-discovery with compassion and courage, knowing that you are deserving of all the love and care in the world, and see how your relationships become more nurturing and expansive.

Recognizing your self-worth beyond the confines of the 'mom' clock is a transformative journey that requires introspection, communication, honesty, and gratitude. By embracing your unique identity and prioritizing your well-being, you can break free from the limitations of any single role and cultivate a deeper, comprehensive sense of worth and fulfillment. Remember that you are valuable, deserving of love and care, and capable of creating a life that honors all aspects of who you are. Embrace your worth, embrace yourself.

Comparison is a tough foe that can hinder our personal growth and prevent us from recognizing our true worth and value. By breaking free from the comparison trap and embracing vulnerability, we can embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment that might change our lives forever. As a coach, I encourage you to prioritize self-compassion and gratitude, set boundaries, embrace vulnerability, and seek professional help when needed.