Do you feel so lost in life, like nothing is going right for you? Maybe it’s even the darkest time you’ve ever had. I can totally relate because I was there too. Back in 2014, I left my teaching career, and I just felt so alone and like a failure. I didn’t think there was anything worth living for after that, even though, from the outside looking in, I had it all. I had a beautiful house, a loving husband, two beautiful girls, nice cars, college degrees—you know, the “white picket fence lifestyle.” But it just felt like there was something missing.

In this blog, I’m going to share with you the three reasons why I felt lost, and I hope that they help you on your journey. Make sure you keep reading because I think the third reason is going to be the most surprising!

The way we live our childhood can profoundly impact our beliefs about ourselves, others, and the world, and eventually, that permeates into our relationships. I bet you’ve had at least one relationship in your life where you felt that everything was so familiar, it was easy to read through them, you always knew how to solve the problems because you already went through some of those with your parents, or you saw the way they used to get along and you 100% understood how “normal relationship dynamics worked”. If you’re a bit more aware of the fact that something was wrong back then you might have wondered if your adult relationships are a replay of your childhood ones. Let me tell you, chances are, they probably are to some extent, and maybe you don’t even know it. 

Let’s dive deeper into this topic to see if unhealed childhood trauma is sneaking into your life - and what you can do to leave the past in the past!

Healing is a process that takes time, and mindfulness is a tool you can use every step of the way. By practicing mindfulness, you’re creating new patterns grounded in peace, self-compassion, and a sense of safety. These new patterns replace those grounded in fear, anxiety, or anger. If you’re looking for more information on your healing journey, consider exploring resources on confronting your past for true healing with the support of a therapist, energy healer, or coach. Remember, mindfulness is a powerful ally in your journey towards healing and self-discovery!

The healing journey is unique for each individual, and it’s natural to encounter challenges along the way. By recognizing and addressing these common mistakes, you can navigate your path with greater awareness and resilience. Remember, healing is a continuous process of growth and self-discovery. Embrace the journey, be patient with yourself, and celebrate every step forward.

Embarking on a healing journey is a profound and deeply personal experience. It’s not a linear path but rather a winding road with many twists and turns. In this blog, I want to share the seven stages I encountered during my healing journey, and most likely you’ll find them too. In my experience, these stages don’t necessarily follow a specific order, and you may find yourself revisiting some stages multiple times. Understanding these stages can help you navigate your own healing process with greater awareness and compassion.

Childhood trauma shapes our beliefs and behaviors in profound ways. By understanding and challenging these beliefs, we can begin to heal and reclaim our sense of self-worth. It is a journey of self-discovery and empowerment, allowing us to shine brightly and authentically in the world.

In our interactions with others, we often encounter situations where people try to tear us down instead of building us up. This behavior is usually rooted in their own insecurities and low self-esteem. We may have been that person and didn’t even notice. Understanding this dynamic can help us navigate interactions more effectively and foster a more supportive environment. Let’s dive deeper into it!

Are you repeating the cycle of the relationship you had with your caregiver in childhood now as an adult? Chances are, you probably are, and you don’t even know it. Let’s explore some signs of how unhealed childhood trauma can affect your adult relationships – and what I did to leave them behind!

In our fast-paced world, nurturing healthy communication within our family members is more crucial than ever. Effective communication lays the foundation for trust, conflict resolution, emotional connection, and overall well-being. Whether you’re gathering with just the adults or including the kids, in this blog you’ll find some essential practices that will help you enhance your family interactions.

The power of focus is undeniable - where we choose to direct our attention shapes our reality and I hope this little storytime serves as an inspiration and finds the right people. By practicing the aforementioned activities, we can tap into a limitless source of positive energy that propels us toward a more fulfilling life and kindly impacts the ones around us.

As we navigate the intricate tapestry of relationships in our lives, let us remember the transformative power of compassion. Let us choose to approach each interaction with kindness and empathy, to see beyond the surface and connect on a heart-to-heart level. In doing so, we not only enrich our relationships but also nurture our souls, creating a ripple effect of love and understanding that reverberates through every aspect of our lives.

Let’s begin understanding the differences between these terms:

Expectations are often externally imposed beliefs or assumptions about how we should act, look, or behave in certain situations. They can create pressure, stress, and feelings of inadequacy when we fail to meet them. On the other hand, standards are internal guidelines that we set for ourselves based on our values, beliefs, and aspirations. They serve as a compass for how we want to live our lives and the kind of person we strive to be.

Remember, you are worthy of love, appreciation, and empathy, and that the people around you deserve it too. By embracing your own value and nurturing your emotional well-being, you can break free from the cycle of seeking validation from others and find true fulfillment within yourself. Embrace your journey of self-discovery with compassion and courage, knowing that you are deserving of all the love and care in the world, and see how your relationships become more nurturing and expansive.

Relationships are the cornerstone of our lives, shaping our emotional well-being and overall happiness. As a woman, I have experienced firsthand the challenges of fostering quality dynamics in my own marriage. There was a time when both my husband and I struggled with feeling unheard and invalidated, leading to a breakdown in communication and trust. Through our journey of self-discovery and growth, we have learned valuable lessons that have transformed our relationship into one built on mutual respect, understanding, and love.

In this blog, I will share insights and tips on how to cultivate healthy relationship dynamics in different settings, drawing from my personal experiences and professional expertise as a coach. Whether you are navigating challenges in your romantic partnership, friendships, or professional relationships, these strategies can help you foster deeper connections and create a more fulfilling life.